St. Mary of Bethany

Feast day: July 29

Sister of Martha and Lazarus who sat at the feet of Jesus; honored on the memorial of Martha, Mary, and Lazarus.

Born
1st century
Died
1st century
Canonized
Pre-Congregation

St. Mary of Bethany was a first-century disciple and friend of Jesus, the sister of St. Martha and St. Lazarus. The family lived at Bethany, a village on the eastern slope of the Mount of Olives near Jerusalem, and their home was a place where Jesus was welcomed and loved. St. Luke recounts the well-known scene in which Martha busied herself with serving while Mary sat at the Lord's feet listening to his word; Jesus gently declared that 'Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken from her' (Luke 10:38-42). For this reason she has long been honored as a model of contemplative attentiveness to Christ. St. John's Gospel deepens her portrait. When Lazarus died, Mary went out to meet Jesus, fell at his feet, and wept—and Jesus, deeply moved, wept with her before raising her brother from the dead (John 11). Shortly before the Passion, at a supper in Bethany, Mary anointed the feet of Jesus with costly perfumed nard and dried them with her hair, an act of extravagant love that Jesus defended as preparation for his burial (John 12:1-8). For many centuries the Western Church tended to identify Mary of Bethany with Mary Magdalen and with the penitent woman of Luke 7, an identification popularized by St. Gregory the Great. Modern scholarship and the Church's present liturgy treat them as distinct figures. Nothing certain is known of Mary of Bethany's later life; later legends carried the family variously to Cyprus or to Provence, but these accounts are not historically reliable. In January 2021 Pope Francis inscribed the combined Memorial of Saints Martha, Mary, and Lazarus into the General Roman Calendar on July 29, honoring the household of Bethany for its witness of hospitality, attentive listening, and faith in Christ as the resurrection and the life. Pilgrims to the Holy Land still visit Bethany (modern al-Eizariya), where the traditional Tomb of Lazarus recalls the family Jesus loved.